Tuesday, June 24, 2014

SPAIN JUNE 2014 -1- MEGABUS IOWA CITY-CHICAGO: NO-NONSENSE SERVICE, WET SEAT, SUNRISE

6/14/2014

MEGABUS IOWA CITY-CHICAGO: NO-NONSENSE SERVICE, WET SEAT, SUNRISE

Three alarms go off almost simultaneously in Iowa City: 2:15 am. We are to get up to leave at 2:30 to be at the transportation center at 2:45 in order to catch my 3 am Megabus to Chicago. This is the first time I am checking Megabus out to catch my flight to Seville, Spain this afternoon. I don't know what possessed me to make this plan. I tell Greg as we are waiting for the Megabus among mostly college students, who are also waiting to get on the bus, which will not arrive from Des Moines until 3:10 and depart until 3:30 (could have had another half an hour of sleep!), this will probably be once in a lifetime experience I will consider. This brings memories of a loop that I had done on Greyhound years ago, when I had just moved to the USA.

I had to interview at two hospitals for residency positions. Thus, I took a bus from Columbus, Ohio to Detroit, Michigan, to Buffalo New York, back to Columbus. I recall getting on the bus and feeling unsafe instantly, and had grabbed the seat closest to the driver, just in case. Even before completing the journey, I knew I wouldn't do it again. I was actually told that Greyhound trip was not the best experience one could have, but the price of having an open jaw flight like that was so prohibitive, I had no other option. Furthermore, how could I know, traveling on an interstate bus would be so different (like day and night) compared to taking an inter-provincial bus in Turkey. Until recently, when the airline business picked up in Turkey, such bus service was very close to airline comfort utilized by most middle and upper middle class people. On this greyhound, I was trying to calm myself down in terms of safety, but I sensed, I wasn't feeling not safe for no reason: First of all, the driver started with informing us all that guns, drugs, and other illegal activities were not allowed on this bus! The thought that rushed through my mind was "Oh my gosh, are we in Texas of old or what?"

In half an hour, the bus stopped, the driver stood up in his seat and turned his body and stern looks (angry should I say?) toward the back seats and threw at them all kinds of threats about throwing them off the bus if they didn't behave themselves, what he saw I never found out, never asked, didn't even look back to see if there were any indicators for me to appreciate why the driver was alarmed. I was naive and new to America and the backstage of American culture, some of which I was witnessing on this trip. I clearly was scared considering all the stereotyping I had been exposed to through American movies back home.

After hearing this story, Greg tells me his story about a Greyhound loop he had done when he had graduated from high school. He had started in Chicago, traveled to Montreal, then to Maine, down the east coast, through the southern states all the way to the west coast and back home in 30 days. He tells me about one of his tricks while traveling: In major cities, he would stay at the end of the line for the possibility of the company calling a second bus to accommodate all ticketed passengers. Surely, the second bus would be less crowded with the spill over passengers once the first bus was full. Isn't it interesting that anything one engages in, there is room to develop skills to a significant depth? I appreciate that my daughter is right, everything every human being does on earth has an importance and requires certain depth in skills-development. As I read recently in "Alchemist" by Paulo Cuelho one more time, "every human being in fact is a hero of their own story and saga".

Finally the bus arrives. A female assistant gets down to address the luggage of some 30 people waiting to get on. She is clearly a no-nonsense woman just like the Greyhound driver of 17 years ago. Somebody attempts to get off, who turns out to be out for a minute to stretch his legs. Her order is concise and stern: "Get back on the bus", and he does, too! Greg is waiting to hand my luggage to her, he will not move until he is told so, neither will I, she knows how to have a grip over her audience! I get on the bus and find a seat after asking if a young woman would sit up and leave the second seat she has been occupying in her comfortable sleep from Des Moines up to Iowa City to me. She reluctantly and without a word sits up and I have a seat at the very front of the upstairs coach. 

More passengers are getting on and more young people are kindly asked to sit up and release the second seat they are occupying to the newcomers. There is a mixed-racial beauty who is repeatedly advising every new passenger that the seat next to her is wet. I read on everybody's face just like mine when I had attempting to take that seat "how did it get wet?" Nobody asks the question, neither did I. Until all the seats are taken and there is still a passenger that needs a seat. Our no-nonsense assistant appears upstairs and asks the mixed-racial beauty "How did it get wet?" I bet many people think "finally the question has been asked". No-nonsense continues "There is no leakage here, it is your seat, you must have wet it!" I am stunned, such brutal honesty is rare! She goes away murmuring "I have plastic bags, it is no big deal", her voice is like a slap on the face. She comes back with a black garbage bag, puts it over the "wet seat" and asks the mixed-racial beauty rather orders her "you sit here and leave the dry seat to this lady". I am "This is too much" rises within me, I am expecting the order recipient to rebel, to my great surprise she doesn't. I am compelled to tell her "You don't have to do that, you know, she can't order you around like that." But then, something inside me tells "She is an adult, she can defend herself if she needs to."

I wait to see what unfolds. She gets up obediently with no sign of anger or frustration and leaves the dry seat to the lady without a seat and moves onto the plastic covered seat. She is so free of any emotional reaction, I understand that she indeed might be the one who perhaps spilled water on the seat next to hers and is now taking her minor punishment gracefully despite the not so graceful presentation of it. Later on, the young woman next to me will wake up and I will discover that she was just shy in not talking to me earlier. She eventually tells me that she and her friends, the mixed racial beauty turns out to be one of her friends, will fly to Colombia today to visit family and have vacation: they are all from Colombia by origin, their parents immigrated to the USA  "to have more". I don't ask "of what?". Her mother was the one who brought the family to Omaha, Nebraska, where she is going to be a sophomore in health administration next fall. In a few years, perhaps even before I retire, she may become my administrator, who will have a larger office than mine, and more say in how we deliver health services to our clients... She has a very innocent, naive air to her, I wish that doesn't go away... That is my Megabus experience for you. I am glad I did it once, I don't know if I will do it again, hoping fast train project can become real between Iowa City and Chicago some day.        
 

Sunrise in Illinois

I try to sleep for a bit. After an hour, I give up and open my eyes. The dark is not as intense as it was, I notice. The shade of gray is getting lighter and lighter by the minute. Finally the first line of orange at the horizon toward which we are fast approaching emerges and becomes thicker and thicker. Orange turns into red, into dark red and occupies the entire horizon climbing up to the sky, finally covering the entire eastern panaroma; in other words, the sky is aflame. Just before sunrise, I conclude, it was worth to get up at 2:15 am, if for nothing else just to see this, one of a dozen times, I managed to savor the wonders of nature at sunrise....

Sunday, June 1, 2014

PARIS MAY 2014 -7- IMPRESSIONISM AT ITS HEIGHT : MONET'S GARDENS

5.10.2014

IMPRESSIONISM AT ITS HEIGHT : MONET'S GARDENS

The first glimpse of the lillies in Monet's garden

We had made a plan to go to Giverny, Monet's home and gardens on our last day in Paris. Greg has done his homework very well, we need to leave early so we can catch an 8 am train rather than a 10:30 from St. Lazare train station. Thus, I discover that St. Lazare to Paris is the Grand Central Station of New York City. We are glad we arrive at the station earlier than needed since the train was scheduled to leave at 7:50 due to the big weekend following the anniversary of Nazis being expelled from the country on May 7th. No wonder, we had huge festivities on Wednesday night along the river, in front of Notre Dame, which felt like all the thunderous noise came from right below our window at the hotel.

Lillies and the willow tree

The train ride to Vernon takes about 45 minutes. Vernon is a small, quaint town with very sweet character. Giverny is a bus ride away from the train station. It takes two buses to carry us all to Giverny, all the visitors of Monet's Gardens, mostly American. How sweet that there are so many Americans interested in going out of their way to visit Giverny by dedicating an entire day to the task.
It turns out to be another highlight of our visit to Paris.  Giverny is yet another small, much smaller than Vernon a town, we learn from an atelier owner, it has only 600 population.


Lillies and reflection in the pond

It does have a church and a cemetery around it, but we don't see any school. The only Main Street is lined up with gift shops, gardening shops, ateliers and galleries, and cafes and restaurants. The old Baugdy hotel/restaurant is interesting in its history: Madame Baugdy was asked to board a few impressionists when they started coming to Giverny following Monet's footsteps: There was no place for them to stay in town. Smart woman, figuring out that these young painters would continue coming back, converted her house into a room and board place with subsequent further conversion into a hotel and a restaurant, and the rest is history. We have the best salad in Paris at this small restaurant, which is successful in squeezing in as many people as they can. Pretty much, everybody is in elbow contact, which triggers conversations around lunch table, another fun thing to do while traveling. 

More than lillies at Monet's Gardens


Visiting Monet's gardens especially his "water garden" where the infamous pond, the willow trees, the bridges, the lilacs, and certainly the lilies reside turns out to be a "de ja vouz" in its own term. I try to look at my surroundings trying to see what Monet had seen in his time. But, we can't bathe in the same water twice: even Monet couldn't depict his water garden, his lilies identically the same twice, how could I see one of his scenes after 400 some years. I just try to take it all in and carry with me to Iowa City for difficult times. In the gardens, among other things, the numerous variety of columbines catch my eyes.  The colors are so gorgeous and varied from white to yellow, to pink, to red, to violet and many more shades...


Columbines at Monet's Gardens

When we are dropped off at the Vernon station half an hour early, we cherish that opportunity to walk around town by going to the town center and discover the magnificent cathedral, again in Gothic style. Greg wants to take me to the Laduree Tea house in the Saint Germain neighborhood, which is famous for its macarons. We take the first train back to Paris at 2:15 pm and arrive in town around 4 pm. Good timing for tea!


Cathedral in Vernon

The store where I get a small box of macarons for my friend Nukhet is crowded with mostly Parisians: I cannot believe how they load their bags with sweets of all kinds from this open buffet type of store. "That is elite Paris for you Resmiye" I think to myself. We go in to have tea/coffee and macarons. It is not unusual to order one mini-macaron with tea in this place due to two things: price is probably prohibitive for many as well as the sweetness of the goodies. We do the same since we are planning to have dinner, too. The place is painted in light green color, but all the walls are covered with Chinese themes as well as the wall trimmings and selected furniture pieces. First time in my life, I am served tea out of silver tea pots! Did I tell the reader Paris has been full of new experiences for me?


Architecture in Vernon


Before going out to dinner, we walk through neighborhoods again. We bump into the narrowest street in Paris: Rue du chat qui peche. Latin Quarter is interesting with its ethnic cafes and restaurants, where you don't pay much, but be ready for suboptimal food, proving one more time "what you pay is what you get!" We eat at a Greek place with the most unfriendly waiter you could find, whose ice I couldn't defrost even by speaking Greek. After dinner, we go to one of the cathedrals.

The narrowest street in Paris

I would like to meditate, Greg is very supportive: I close my eyes and focus on my breath as well as thoughts. I observe my thoughts and emotions as they come and go, their intensity, their variety. I just acknowledge how I feel without making any attempt to change them. I observe my thoughts about what Paris meant for me in the past, what it has meant for the last week, what it means now and what it may mean in the future. I also observe thoughts about what home means, how much at home I feel in Paris. I notice my longing for being at home, in my own house, in my own town. I had exceptional experiences in Paris, yes, but it is time to go home, to Iowa City, it is good to have roots some place on earth that I can call home, to always return to... That is what makes all the traveling so precious and meaningful for me. 




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